New parent checklist
Six items, in the order that matters. The first one isn't insurance.
A new baby changes the answer to almost every insurance question at once, and does so at the point when you have the least time to think about it.
Here's the short version, ordered by consequence.
One: guardianship
Not insurance, and more important than any of it. Naming a guardian for your child requires a will or the equivalent legal document — an insurance beneficiary designation does not do it.
It's the item most new parents skip and the one with the worst consequences if it's missing.
Two: health plan enrolment
Adding a newborn to a health plan has a deadline, and missing it can mean waiting for the next enrolment period.
Do it in the first days. Confirm in writing that the child has been added.
Three: life insurance for both parents
Including a parent who doesn't earn. The care they provide would have to be paid for, and a surviving partner often has to cut hours as well — income falls while costs rise.
Size it against actual obligations, and match the term to the longest one, which is usually the mortgage or the year your child becomes independent.
Four: the beneficiary structure
Do not name a minor child directly as beneficiary. It generally requires a court-appointed guardian to receive the funds, which is slow, costly and not what you intended.
The usual answer is naming your partner with a trust as contingent beneficiary, or a trust directly. Take advice on the structure — it's a short conversation with a large payoff.
Five: disability coverage
An income interruption from illness or injury is more likely than a death during working years, and life insurance does nothing for it.
Check what you have through work, what it actually replaces after tax, and whether it ends with the job.
Six: everything else, briefly
- Update beneficiary designations on every policy and retirement account
- Review home or renters coverage, since you now own considerably more small expensive things
- Check auto coverage limits — you have more to protect
- Consider an umbrella policy
- Note when your term coverage ends against your child's age
What not to buy
Be cautious about permanent life insurance sold on a child as a savings vehicle. Insure the people whose income the household depends on first, at the amounts it needs — that's the whole job.
A child rider on your own policy is inexpensive and its real value is preserving the child's future insurability, not the death benefit.
Common questions
Guardianship, which requires a will or equivalent legal document — an insurance beneficiary designation doesn't name a guardian. It's the item most often skipped and the worst one to be missing.
Not directly. Naming a minor generally requires a court-appointed guardian to receive the funds. The usual answer is your partner with a trust as contingent, or a trust directly — take advice on the structure.
Yes. The care they provide would have to be paid for and the surviving partner often has to cut hours, so income falls while costs rise. Price the hours at local market rates.
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