Your beneficiary form beats your will
That sentence surprises people, and it's the whole point of this page.
A beneficiary is the person or entity you name to receive a life insurance death benefit. The designation on the policy generally controls where the money goes.
It generally overrides your will. If the two disagree, the form usually wins — which makes it one of the most consequential pieces of paper you'll ever fill in once and forget.
Primary and contingent
A primary beneficiary receives the benefit. A contingent receives it if the primary has died before you or at the same time.
Leaving contingent blank is the single most common omission. Without one, the benefit may default to your estate — which means probate, delay, and potential exposure to creditors, undoing much of the reason for buying life insurance.
The mistakes that misdirect money
- An ex-spouse still named after a divorce
- No contingent beneficiary
- Naming your estate instead of a person
- Naming a minor child directly, which usually requires court involvement
- A group policy through work naming someone different from your individual policy
- Misspelled names or missing detail that delays identification
When to review
- Marriage or divorce
- Birth or adoption of a child
- Death of anyone named
- Changing employers, which usually means a new group policy
- Any significant change in your relationships
Tell someone it exists
Insurers generally don't know a policyholder has died unless someone tells them. A policy nobody knows about may never be claimed.
One person knowing the insurer, roughly what's covered, and where the documents are is worth more than any amount of careful drafting.
Common questions
Generally not. A policy with a named beneficiary usually passes outside your estate, so the form controls. Make sure the two agree.
Minors generally can't receive a payout directly, and naming one usually means a court appoints someone to manage it. A trust or similar arrangement is worth asking about instead.
Request a change form from the insurer. Do it in writing through them — telling family your intentions has no legal effect on the policy.
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