How to shop for life insurance
Decide what you need before anyone quotes you a price.
Most people shop life insurance backwards: collect quotes, pick the cheapest, then work out what they bought. That's how you end up with a policy that expires five years before your mortgage does.
The order below costs nothing extra and produces a decision you can defend.
Step one: size the obligation, not the premium
Work out what would actually need covering — debts that don't disappear, income that would stop, costs that would start. Then subtract what already exists: savings, existing policies, coverage through work, and your partner's earning capacity.
What's left is the gap. That number, not a multiple of your salary, is what you're shopping for.
Step two: match the shape to the obligation
Now decide the structure, because it follows from the obligation rather than from preference.
- A need with an end date — a mortgage, children at home — points to term
- A need with no end date — final expenses, a lifelong dependent — points to permanent
- A need that steps down in stages may suit two terms of different lengths
- If health is a concern, ask about conversion privileges before anything else
Step three: get quotes on identical terms
Only now does price become meaningful. Give every quoter the same face amount, the same term, and the same honest health picture.
Watch for the assumed health class in particular. A quote assuming the best available class will always undercut one assuming a standard class, and that difference is an assumption rather than a better deal.
Step four: apply, then wait properly
Answer the application accurately — it's the contract, and the contestability period means an error found later can cost your family the claim.
Do not cancel any existing coverage until the new policy is issued and in force. Not when you apply, not when you're told it looks good.
Step five: put it where it can be found
Confirm the beneficiaries, tell at least one person the policy exists and which insurer holds it, and store the documents somewhere findable.
A policy nobody knows about doesn't get claimed. This step costs five minutes and determines whether the previous four mattered.
Common questions
Both can work. What matters more is whether whoever helps you can explain the tradeoffs and put the key terms in writing, and whether the quotes you compare describe genuinely identical contracts.
Long enough to outlast the obligation it's covering. Working from the years remaining on a mortgage or until a child is independent gives a better answer than picking a round number.
Most policies include a free look period after delivery in which you can review the contract and cancel for a refund. Use it to actually read the policy.
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This page is general information, not advice about your specific circumstances. A licensed insurance professional can tell you what’s actually available to you.
General information only, not insurance advice. Coverage, availability, and terms vary by insurer and by state, and are subject to underwriting. Quote My Policy LLC is a licensed insurance producer. Nothing here binds coverage.
